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Be Believed:It is important that you communicate support and acceptance to someone who has disclosed a sexual assault to you.  Allow the survivor to speak openly and freely. Let them decide what they want to tell you about the assault – don’t force them to talk about it if they aren’t ready.  Here are some suggested responses that convey your support:

"I’m sorry this happened to you."

"You didn’t deserve for this to happen."

"This wasn’t your fault."

"I believe you."


"How can I help you?"

Know it was not her/his fault:Most victims of sexual assault feel as though they are some how to blame for their own assault.  Especially, in acquaintance rape/date rape situations victims often feel as though they should have done something different or seen it coming.  While this is a normal response, it’s important that as a support person you help the victim know that they are not to blame.  No one wants or asks to be sexually assaulted. 

 

Sexual Assault

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